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Eureka: 50 Signs someone hates you Eureka: 50 Signs someone hates you
by Akli Hadid
2018-04-28 07:52:52
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Maybe you're stuck in a relationship where you don't feel you belong. Or at a job you don't feel you belong. Or at a school you don't feel you belong. Before too much damage is done, here are 50 signs the people you work with, are dating or are being supervised by actually hate you and would do anything to have you out of their life. Maybe they want you to stay for the few benefits you bring them, they hesitate whether they would be better off with or without you. But deep inside, if you see this sign, they really want you out of their life.

1- They lecture you. If they really like you, they want to converse with you, not lecture you.

2- They get angry when you're around. If they liked you, they would be happy when you're around.

3- They interrupt. When you try to provide information, they're censoring it.

4- They don't share important information. If they liked you, they would tell you about the important events and hapenings.

hate1_4005- They don't invite you to most events. If they really liked you, they would love your presence at important events.

6- They don't respect your beliefs or lifestyle. If they liked you, they wouldn't laugh at your vegetarianism or political beliefs.

7- They act pompous and extravagant when you're around. If they're talking loudly or showing off when you're around, they probably don't like you. If they liked you, they would speak to you directly.

8- They lie to you. A lot. If they liked you, they would tell you the truth most of the time.

9- Their stories are reminiscent of movie scenes. If they liked you, they would keep their stories simple.

10- They're constantly talking about Nazis, horror movies and famous assassinations when you're around. If they liked you, they would be thinking about positive things most of the time.

11- They cry a lot when you're around. Crying's OK a few times or when there's a tragedy, but when it becomes daily, they probably have a problem with you.

12- They force you to do things. If they had positive feelings about you, they would probably suggest you to do things.

13- A lot of the time you spend together involves drinking alcohol. If they liked you, they would choose other activities.

14- They refuse to celebrate your victories and milestones. It's your birthday, but they want a quiet party. Then they want a quiet wedding. They also want quiet celebrations, or no celebration at all, for that promotion they just gave you.

15- They don't allow you to talk to other people. This is either because they did something bad to those other people, or because they told them bad things about you. Otherwise, if they had good reasons for you not to talk to those people, they would suggest you don't see them.

16- They invite you to places you clearly can't afford. They'll send you an invitation to an expensive restaurant, or suggest you take that expensive trip even when they know you're broke or can't afford such luxuries.

17- They smile when you're sad, frown when you're happy. If they liked you they would be happy when you're happy, sad when you're sad.

18- They don't ask you how important events went. It was your birthday and they don't ask you how that went. Or you had a business trip and they don't ask you how that went.

19- They keep you out of conversations. If they liked you they would include you in the conversations.

20- They criticize the way you look or the way you dress. They constantly tell you that you need to lose weight or up that fashion sense a notch.

21- They make fun of you for not knowing stuff. If they liked you they would teach it to you.

22- They don't come to you when they need information. But they go to the person next to you when you're the one who has the information. That's a clear sign they don't like you.

23- They shower you with work or tasks. If they liked you, they would give you just what you need when it comes to work or tasks.

24- They pretend they don't notice things you do. In any healthy relationship, people who like you notice the things you do, and they let you know that they noticed.

25- They use culture or personality to justify offending you. This means they will offend you again and again and again. Culture or personality is not an excuse to offend people.

26- They say inappropriate things when you're around or touch you inappropriatly. They wouldn't do that if they liked you.

27- They play with your emotions. If they liked you, they would want you to be emotionally stable when you're around them.

28- They never tell you why they like you. Like they don't tell you what's cool about you, what makes you a good person, what they envy about you, nor do they praise you.

29- They don't ask you personal questions. Maybe asking personal questions can be inappropriate the first time you meet someone or in public. But if they've known you for six months or a year and don't ask you where you live or what your plans are, maybe they have a problem with you.

30- They don't try to have private conversations with you. If they liked you, they would tell you things off the record.

31- They only talk about topics that bore you or annoy you. If they liked you, they would try to talk about things you're interested in.

32- They force you to apologize. If they liked you, they would let you apologize on your own. And they would tell you there's no need to apologize.

33- They only communicate with you via text messages or emails. If they liked you, they would talk to you directly.

34- They use excuses to justify obnoxious behavior. I grew up poor. I grew up in a tough neighborhood. I was tortured during the war. I have anger management issues. If they liked you, they would not have behaved obnoxiously.

35- They're angry at you, but when someone else shows up or they get a phone call, they leave their anger on hold. If they liked you, they would leave the phone call or the other person on hold until you conclude your dispute.

36- They never finish their stories. If they liked you, they would make sure they finished their stories and you finish your stories.

37- They're not clear when they talk to you. If they're not clear, it probably means there are things they're trying to tell you but that you don't want to hear.

38- They fake an accent, or fake a personality, or joke around when they're with you. If they really liked you, a lot of the conversation would be serious, save the occasional laughter festival.

39- They don't add you on social media, or feel awkward about adding you on social media. If they liked you, they would gladly add you on social media.

40- They leave aggressive comments on your social media profile. If they really like you, they probably would refrain from adding comments on social media and they would call you instead.

41- They tell you off for not leaving comments on their social media profile. If they like you, they would just be happy you noticed their update.

42- They throw tantrums at you. If they liked you, they wouldn't get too upset about minor things.

43- They rarely if ever ask you “how's it going?” If they liked you, they would want to know what you are up to.

44- They overreact to your minor achivements, but stay silent when you have a major achivement. Getting a 10 dollar raise is never a great thing. If they're overly excited about that, they probably don't like you.

45- They don't try to help you when you're in a sticky situation. If they liked you, they would either give you advice, or suggest a lawyer or a doctor or both.

46- They don't allow you to complain. If they liked you, they would allow you to complain. If you don't like them, you will probably complain most of the time.

47- They don't show up to your events. If you're having a party and they're not showing up, or any kind of event and they're not showing up, and don't provide an excuse beforehand, they probably don't like you.

48- They don't allow you to talk back. If they liked you, they would allow you to talk back.

49- They interfere with your personal choice. They don't let you order something at a restaurant and give no clear reason why. Or constantly reject your choices.

50- They never pick you for anything. If they liked you, they would give you different responsibilies. Or they pick you for things you don't like doing. If they liked you, they'd go with someone who likes doing the task.

Now there are dozens of other signs that someone doesn't like you or even hates you. Are you treating people like I described above? That probably means you don't like them, and should fire them, dump them, or get them out of your life. Or maybe you're being treated like that. That also means you need the person out of your life. Hating someone rarely happens overnight. A lot of times when a person hates you they will hate you from day one. And their hate tends to be permanent, it's very hard to get a person to like you. As they say don't go where you're tolerated, go where you're celebrated.


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